If your septic service provider is recommending pump-outs more frequently than the general guidelines suggest you should need them, that is worth investigating. The possible reasons include a tank that was undersized for the household when installed, a garbage disposal that adds significantly to sludge generation, or paper products that are not biodegrading at the rate they should.
Many homeowners discover their tank fills faster than expected without ever connecting it to their toilet paper choice. The paper is an easy variable to adjust, and it is worth ruling out before spending money on other interventions.
Unusually green, unusually lush grass in a specific area above your drain field can indicate effluent reaching the surface of the soil. In very early stages, this looks like fertilization. As it progresses, the area gets wet, the ground gets soft underfoot in dry weather, and eventually the odor arrives.
Any of these signs mean your system needs professional inspection immediately. But the contributing factors upstream, including what has been entering the tank for the past several years, are worth understanding even once the immediate problem is addressed.